FROM THE BIG APPLE TO THE PACIFIC COAST
How I Found Myself in the Business of Love
Once upon a time, I was a high-heeled matchmaker in New York City—buzzing between client meetings, rooftop dates, and last-minute flight changes, building love stories for people all over the country. I lived and breathed relationships. For over a decade, I helped smart, successful, emotionally curious people find real, lasting love.
I had the instinct for it. I could tell in minutes whether someone was emotionally available, stuck in a pattern, or genuinely ready for the real thing. I matched hundreds of clients, coached thousands through their attachment styles, and became the person people called when they were tired of the apps and ready to do it differently.
And the plot twist? I was single.
The matchmaker without a match. Born on Valentine’s Day. You can’t make it up. But here’s the truth—it wasn’t tragic. It was a turning point. I had spent years helping people find their person. Then I realized: I hadn’t really found me yet.
So I did something unexpected. I slowed down. I left the city. I spent time in Mexico, where life isn’t about hustle—it’s about presence. That’s where I discovered Reiki. Not in a dramatic, lightning-bolt kind of way. But in the quiet, powerful kind of way that cracks you open and puts you back together stronger.
Reiki healing shifted everything. It helped me regulate my nervous system, reconnect with my body, and rewrite the patterns I’d been dragging around for years. That’s when I started blending it with everything I already knew—attachment theory, relationship dynamics, and the matchmaking world I’d built my career in.
Now, this work runs deeper than it ever has.
I help people find love—secure, grounded, soul-level love—by starting with the most important relationship of all: the one with themselves.
Through matchmaking, attachment coaching, and Reiki healing, I help clients get clear, get aligned, and stop settling for less than what they truly want. I don’t do fluff, surface advice, or cookie-cutter coaching. I do real. I do energy. I do strategy. And I do it with heart.
Because love isn’t just something that happens to you.
It’s something you create—when you’re finally ready to receive it.
THE TAKEAWAY
Love isn’t just about finding the right person. It’s about becoming the right person—whole, aligned, and ready to receive the kind of love you truly deserve. It’s about understanding your patterns, healing your wounds, and giving yourself permission to grow.
Real talk… Whether you’re searching for love, healing from heartbreak, or just trying to make sense of life’s chaos—you're not alone. And your story? It’s far from over.
I’m part matchmaker, part coach, part Reiki master—100% here for the real, messy, beautiful journey. Sharing my own rollercoaster ride, so you feel inspired to take the leap, do the work, and trust the damn process.
Ash xo
WELCOME
Start your journey towards feeling better
In my space, authenticity is everything, judgment is nonexistent, and your personal growth takes center stage.
Together, we’ll work through the real stuff—your patterns, your blocks, your breakthroughs—and unlock the version of you who’s confident, connected, and fully alive.
As a Certified Attachment Coach, Reiki Master, and Professional Matchmaker, I combine tools like Integrated Attachment Theory, intuitive energy healing, and relationship strategy to help you heal, align, and attract what you truly want. Whether you're moving through heartbreak, craving energetic balance, or ready to call in a deeper relationship, every session is customized just for you.
My approach? Bold, cheeky, and refreshingly direct—because real growth demands honesty and action. I’ll help you uncover the subconscious patterns holding you back and guide you toward clarity, confidence, and connection.
This isn’t just coaching. It’s a full-body, full-heart transformation.
Think: relationship expert, intuitive healer, and self-help truth-teller all rolled into one—here to help you build the love, energy, and life you actually deserve.
So grab your coffee—or your wine (no judgment here)—and let’s get started.
Your transformation begins now.
IT´S TIME FOR A CHANGE
Are you ready to break free from fear, self-doubt, and limiting patterns—and finally step into the love, confidence, and alignment you deserve?
Join me as we dive into the world of self-discovery, healing, and transformation. With years of expertise in love, relationships, energy work, and personal growth, I provide powerful insights and practical tools to help you create real, lasting change. It’s time to stop settling and start thriving.
Where you´re at...
You’re feeling drained, stuck, or just over it.
You’re lost in cycles of confusion & self-doubt
You feel defeated by your lack of progress.
You have a vision for your future, but no clear path to get there.
You keep repeating the same patterns
Where you want to be...
You feel energetically aligned.
You feel secure and confident everyday.
You have clarity and direction.
You fully step into your highest self—magnetic, worthy, and in control.
You become an attractor, not a chaser.
My program is designed to meet you where you are and provide you what you need...
Authentic Awake is an 12-week coaching program using the Integrated Attachment Theory (IAT) methodology.
Throughout the program, I will empower you to engage in the process of recognizing destructive mental, emotional, and behavioral patterns, whilst learning tools to reprogram these unhelpful patterns by 'cultivating the opposite' at the level of our deep subconscious mind.
Know EXACTLY what blocks have been holding you back.
Learn transformative tools to permanently remove your blocks.
Become clear when your past is trying to control your present.
Have the ability to manage your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors with more power and ease.
Trust your ability to take courageous action even in the presence of fear.
SERVICES
Some of the ways we can work together...
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1:1 Attachment Style Coaching
These sessions are designed to help you make decisions from confidence, not fear. Using tools from Integrated Attachment Theory, I’ll help you uncover and reprogram your patterns, so you can create secure relationships—from the inside out.
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Online Mini Courses & Workshops
My online programs are designed to help you attract aligned love, break free from childhood conditioning, and step into your most grounded, confident self. Learn at your own pace while doing the deep work that actually creates change.
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1:1 Personalized Matchmaking
This exclusive service pairs you with high-quality, emotionally available individuals who actually align with your values, goals, and relationship vision. You’ll get strategic support, real connection, and curated matches—not endless swiping.
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Reiki Energy
Healing
Reiki helps you reconnect with your body, release emotional blockages, and regulate your nervous system. These sessions restore balance to your mind, body, and energy—so you can move forward feeling lighter, clearer, and more in control.
HEAR IT FROM MY CLIENTS
Nice words that have been shared with me
ALLIE J.
CALIFORNIA, USA
"Her program doesn't feel like typical therapy. I'm actually getting stuff done and seeing a difference."
I was a hot mess when I came to Ashley. I had a lot of emotional baggage from my past relationship which was holding me back tremendously. After my first consultation, Ash and I decided that a Reiki treatment would be a great starting point to remove negative energy blocks before we start to do the deeper work through IAT. Every coaching session has been eye opening. It's been a surreal experience to say the least.
Allie
EMILY R.
TULUM, MEXICO
"We’ve only been working together for 5 weeks and I already feel like a new person."
I initially hired Ashley for coaching, knowing her reputation in matchmaking. She’s always given me the best advice and has the best stories, but this time around our sessions were completely different from years past. It’s like she pushed my reset button. Not only did we discuss my current struggles, but we were able to dive deeper than I ever had in therapy. Discovering the root cause and my core beliefs has really shifted my perspective.
